The beauty of Crush or Flush is that you’ll only chat with people you’ve Crushed… whether it’s for friends or more. Of course, if they haven’t Crushed you then you’re out of luck. Your best bet is to login and start Crushin’ and Flushin’ if you want to chat. We’ll send you a text when you have a Mutual Crush so you can chat anonymously without giving up your digits.
You can also instantly chat with people who already have a Crush on you. Click 'Find & Filter' from the main menu and then click 'Who Crushed Me.' You'll see a small checked box at the top of your screen telling you that you are now browsing everyone that has a Crush on you. Same deal - if you like them you can Crush them back and instantly chat. If not, Flush them and they'll never know. It's that simple.
Chat Safely
We’ve also taken several steps to make your chat experience on Crush or Flush fun, safe, and secure. Below are some of the things we’re doing to keep your chat experience safe:
- Unlike traditional sites where members can hide behind multiple profiles tied to different e-mail addresses, on Crush or Flush you can only have one profile that is tied to your cell phone number.
- During the sign-up process, your cell number is used to verify that you are a real person, and there can only be one profile per number. If someone harasses you or causes a problem, we will block his number and that person will permanently disappear.
- You can only chat with someone with whom you have a Mutual Crush so you never get unsolicited e-mail, text messages, chat requests, or annoying communication from other community members. You only get notified, via text message, when you have a Mutual Crush with someone so you can chat anonymously.
- Every Crush or Flush member creates their own nickname which other community members will see. No one ever gets your real name, cell phone number, or e-mail address. Later on, when you are chatting with a Mutual Crush, if you want to exchange digits on your own, that’s your deal. Ball’s always in your court.
- Keeping your personal 411 private during your chat experience is important to us. Crush or Flush will never share or sell your phone number to anyone. We work hard to keep our chat experience safe and secure for you.

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